Did a “stop” sign just pop up in your head? Do you have an immediate reaction blocking the notion? Do you think sexy lingerie is just for those Victoria Secret models with the impossibly perfect bodies? Guess again.
Lets cover the available choices first. You can find beautiful, sexy lingerie in many different stores … you don’t have to steel yourself to enter an “adult” toy and clothing store. Lots of women find nighties and other outfits at the same chain and department stores where they usually shop.
In fact, some women prefer to purchase lingerie at discount stores simply because it is a smart budget choice, and allows them to bring home more items and therefore more choices.
More than one woman has confessed to purchasing her “intimates” at a dollar or close-out retail store for the simple reason that she’s not worrying about the cost of the outfit when her partner removes it, and she’s less likely to save it for a special occasion. She’s able to outfit herself in a garment that catches her partner’s interest but didn’t make her compromise paying a utility bill. She nourishes her self esteem for the cost of a DVD, and her love life gets a priceless boost.
There are many other options if you don’t feel up to or can’t find the time to browse your local stores, or if you are wanting something really daring and risque’. The wondrous Internet has opened up a bonanza of options for those of you that like to shop at home in your flannel jammies, choosing intimate apparel that might make your Aunt Marge blush. Be as tame or as wild as you please … it’s your bedroom, isn’t it? But when you get right down to the marrow of that issue, who’s to say your dear old Aunt doesn’t have a few satin or nylon baby-doll nighties of her own hidden in the back of her underwear drawer. Every single woman deserves a little secret sexy in her dresser, right?
Now, lets think about what style you’ll choose. If you ordinarily wear white cotton panties and a simple brassiere, taking small baby steps may be more comfortable. Experiment a little at first, maybe by choosing bright colors, or a bold pattern. If you already wear exotic lingerie and are looking for a new surprise for your partner, consider how you may want to reveal your new purchase. Sometimes the secret planning is half the fun, and helps boost your confidence to try new things. Are you thinking of something you’ll wear under your regular work clothes? Or do you fancy hiding it under your ordinary fuzzy bathrobe, and then unveiling your new look dramatically, like a work of art?
Whatever you choose, however you buy it, and no matter how you surprise your sweetie remember this … no matter what your size or shape, it’s how you carry yourself and the self-confidence you have within will make the lasting impression. You will spark that flame of passion befitting the work of art you really are.
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